Violate a Man’s consent? Pfftt…

Is that even possible? Yes, men can have their consent violated…and they do. Though men won’t usually report it, they have their consent violated a lot more than we think. Women and men, grab their ass and fondle their junk. They have their personal space invaded and hands roam their bodies…all without consent. Why don’t

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My Triggers are MINE

I have Complex PTSD.  I have only been recently diagnosed.  Did the lifestyle bring it on, or was it simply that I had finally allowed myself to be vulnerable enough that the triggers could penetrate my defenses?  I will probably never know.  I’ve been in therapy for 3 years now and I still have so much to learn.  I hope

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Good ole’ Boy Network (GOBN)

People could draw a fine line between submission and oppression, if they didn’t really understand submission. But who can say that they REALLY understand submission?  Each person’s desire to be submissive is individually their own.  No one submissive is the same as another.  They may share similar kinks, but their root desires are not the

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